No Regrets!

02 Nov No Regrets!

Every decision that I have made in my life has led me here. Every opportunity that I took, every opportunity that I declined. Every relationship that I said yes to, every relationship that I walked away from. Every experience that I have said yes to and the ones I never took. All of it, has led me here. To the person that I am today.

Sitting on my couch catching up on the newest episode of Real Housewives of SLC while eating a burger and fries… lol…yes that is true….but… you know what I mean 😊

This moment in time. It definitely gets me in my feels in all of the good ways. I have grown so damn much, especially the past 2 ½ years.

I can confidently and boldly say that I do not regret any of the decisions that I have made because it has all led me here. It has all taught me a lesson, made me face things I needed to face and grow as a person and heal along with having the time of my life and making great memories and having amazing experiences.

For example, past relationships, I can look at them and say I don’t regret any of them. They all had to begin and end how they did and in the time that they did for a reason. I have walked away from each of them and learned more about myself and grown more as a person. I am thankful for being dumped; I am thankful for walking away from others. There is truly always a lesson to be learned and I have gained that from every one of them.

There is a sense of empowerment, or maybe its an overwhelming feeling of just being proud of myself and loving myself and the person that I have become. I am happy for all of my decisions thus far and truly feel that this is just the beginning in my life. Beginning of an epic journey and story for myself. Now at the age of 37, I have embraced the person that I am and my journey.

I know it’s easy to sometimes live with regret or get yourself stuck in a rut wondering why you did things or why you didn’t do other things. Try to see the silver lining. Try to find the positive. Dig deep and allow yourself sometime for self-reflection to see what take aways or lessons there were to learn and what things there are / were to be grateful for.

I always say, we are just humans doing our best at this thing called life. So don’t be too hard on yourself and do your best to live with no regrets.

This post was shorter than the others, but just had to write as I was in my feels and doing some thinking about my life and my decisions. No regrets! <3

xoxo